My Husband’s Unconscious Racism Nearly Destroyed Our Marriage

This essay was originally published on The Establishment on May 26, 2016. It has been republished on Black Girl NerdsHuffington Post and Everyday Feminism. I wrote this because...well, because I had to. It was cathartic in many ways and it helped me deal with an aspect of my relationship that I didn't want to face...something nobody else seemed to be talking about. 

Keeping It Real About Interracial Relationships as a POC Part 1

It's work being in an interracial relationship, including friendships. There is hands-down a lack of respect of Black people that permeates interactions between white and Black people. Whether or not you decide to engage in that battle is a personal choice. It is a choice that I will not encourage but for which I will offer resources and support.