All in Life

It's a Gaslight Life For Us!

I know so many men are super slow when it comes to sexism so as long as you aren't trying to gaslight me, undermine me, condescend to me, or yell at me in my DMs, while simultaneously ignoring what I'm saying, we can be cool. But when you do all that shit at the same damn time? Fuck you. Fuck your feelings. Fuck your words. Fuck your life.

But mostly, fuck you.

I'm not here for your shit.

My Husband’s Unconscious Racism Nearly Destroyed Our Marriage

This essay was originally published on The Establishment on May 26, 2016. It has been republished on Black Girl NerdsHuffington Post and Everyday Feminism. I wrote this because...well, because I had to. It was cathartic in many ways and it helped me deal with an aspect of my relationship that I didn't want to face...something nobody else seemed to be talking about. 

Keeping It Real About Interracial Relationships as a POC Part 1

It's work being in an interracial relationship, including friendships. There is hands-down a lack of respect of Black people that permeates interactions between white and Black people. Whether or not you decide to engage in that battle is a personal choice. It is a choice that I will not encourage but for which I will offer resources and support.